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So you think you are a good lover? Try this quick quiz

Posted on March 25, 2022

True love is loving someone just the way they are and supporting them to become the best person they can – not wanting to change or fix them.
While opposites sometimes attract, it‘s often safer to seek someone who is similar to you and who wants similar things out of the marriage and life as you do.
How similar are you to your potential partner? Take this test: write down how similar you think you are, and then ask your partner to do the same, with respect to:

Emotion
Intellect
Spirituality
Kindness
Communication
Consideration
Enthusiasm
Socialness
Passion
Proactiveness
Ambition
Sense of humour
Conflict resolution
Adaptability
Need to be organised / control

Use a 10 point scale, with 1 being ‘not at all similar’ to 10 being ‘very similar’.
This will require you knowing and understanding how your partner thinks about these things. If you are uncertain ask your partner what they feel and think.
If you are far apart on more than half of these, you will most likely run into problems – sooner or later. As mentioned earlier, sharing a similar attitude to love, and life, is key to a lasting and loving relationship.
Learn more in this most helpful book – available free online for a limited time.
Download it here

The difference between love and true love

Posted on July 10, 2021

A key to finding true love is to expand beyond the basics, beyond the physical.
Expand to the mental, relate and connect on a mental level.
Then take it further and expand into the spiritual.

How do you do that?
For example, rather than try to change your partner, expand into areas where you can reconnect.
Focus on the energy; your energy, your partner’s energy and how it relates and interacts between you. Is it flowing between you, expanding, balancing?
Whatever the case, you can give more love energy, more consideration, more connection, more self worth, more encouragement, more of you.

Be the hero of your own relationship, to not only save it, but to take it to another level.
It’s worth giving it a try. If you succeed you can lift your relationship towards the comfort, warmth and joy of true love.

Here are some tips:
Often we seek things in a relationship that we’re missing from our self. If you ‘need’ someone to ‘complete’ you, to provide you with a ‘better half’, address what you’re missing in your relationship with yourself first
Realise that things change – and that you may also need to change too
Explore, share – yourself – your inner-most self
Continually relate with a partner; seek ways to connect, to understand
Speak up. More importantly listen up
Ensure your words and actions are positive and that they match one another
If how you feel, think, speak and act all match you’ll feel much more content
Take a relationship beyond the physical; expand to the mental, then the divine.

See more on how to do this in the free ebook!
Have you found it on this site yet?

A business-like approach to love

Posted on October 4, 2019

A head-hunter friend of ours, who teaches big companies that when they’re recruiting people they should hire those who best fit their culture, who embody the ideals of the organization.
She coaches them on how to employ people who are prepared to work together with others to achieve a common objective. They might not have the same personality type, not even the same views, but they are able to band with others and work together.
Look at potential partners in this way:
– do they have similar ideals to you;
– do they think of others and work together with them?
– do they take control and direct or do everything on their own?
Ask them what their views are on love, on true love, and how they’ve gone about finding it?
Do they have the same ideals and approach as you?
Love is not as scarce a commodity as it has often been made out to be. There’s plenty of love energy to go around. We all want it. We all have it to give.
So turn the traditional approach to finding love around and start by looking ‘top’ down. It’s the person inside, their soul, that you’re trying to determine how they might connect with yours. True love is where you connect with another on all levels – physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually (in terms of energy rather than religion).
Download the free book now – it’s just a click away – no registration required.

The power of love

Posted on July 7, 2019

Did you know that love is an energy?

The fact that your energy cannot be destroyed means that it has to flow or be stored. The choice is yours.

When you store energy this can be as fat, a fixation on objects or a mental or emotional attachment to something or someone. This is why personal attachment to objects, events or people can cause suffering, as it stops your energy flowing.

You cannot store the energy of true love: it has to flow, which is why you have to give it, as giving love enables it to flow.

How you do that is up to you.

One of the best ways to get your energy flowing better is by doing what you do in a loving manner. By doing this you get it to flow more harmoniously. Remember, love is the reward for the bringing together, integration and harmonious flow of your energies.

To get your energy to flow harmoniously might mean that you may need to let things go, such as the past, regret and the like. You can either keep your energy flowing around and around the same old circuits or you can direct it to create new ones that might help it flow better.

Letting your energy flow from a place of love, living in a loving manner, is a good way to create new ways for it to flow.

Also, make sure that your energy, and love, is flowing in the right direction. For example, sometimes we get stressed and focus energy on the stress and end up being even more stressed.

Focus your energy Energy goes where attention flows.

Find out more in the free ebook – download it from this site now.

Something different – would you?

Posted on February 20, 2019

A French woman recently become engaged to a 3D printed robot she designed – read more here.

A Chinese engineer married a robot of his own making – find out more here.

A Japanese man married a hologram – see here.

A US study showed that 40% of Americans would have sex with a robot – see here.

Would you?
– thanks to the World Future Society.

Untitled

Posted on April 7, 2018

EXTEND YOUR SEARCH FOR LOVE

– WHERE TO START

The ultimate secret, the ultimate truth, of love is that the search for true love starts with you.

It starts with you being true to yourself.

Once you’re true to yourself then you’re truly free to love another.

The pressure is off any other person to fulfil your needs. You have no need to take, only to give, to give love.

It then extends to you helping your partner be true to themselves.

This frees your partner to be who they really are, to meet their own needs and realise their potential.

You don’t just accept them, you encourage them to be themself, you love them for who they are – sometimes in spite of who they are.

If you encourage your partner to be themself they’ll always want to be with you as you’ll make them feel good, help them grow and live.

Do you encourage a potential, or your existing, partner to be themselves, to grow – to love? Or are you more critical in your approach?

If you are the latter it is time for a change! Next time you find yourself judging your partner – or a potential one – by thinking that they are too short, too tall, too this or not enough that – stop yourself!!!

Don’t just evaluate partners on physical attributes. Expand beyond the emotional and mental; beyond questioning will they make a good partner and parent.

It’s the person inside, their soul, that you’re trying to determine how well might connect with yours.

True love is where you connect with another on all levels – physically, emotionally, mentally and more.

So, love with more than your physical body, love with more than your heart, with more than your mind – love with your inner most energy, your spirit, your soul.

If you do, if you love with your soul you will find your soul mate, you will find true love – or it will find you!

Find out more secrets by downloading the free e-book here.

Happy Valentine's Day

Posted on February 14, 2018

Where ever you are this Valentine’s Day remember that you are loved.
There is always someone who loves you!
Maybe not as and as much as you’d like…
…which is why we wrote out book – so that you can find the love you deserve without making the mistakes we did.
Download it now here and get started on the journey – or reread it if you have already downloaded.
Love – Kris & Guy.

Our most important blog

Posted on January 31, 2018

SECRET #1

One of the biggest, yet unrecognised, challenges for many people today is how to meet their human need for self esteem.

This need was recognised by Abraham Maslow in his famous pyramid of human needs, needs that we each need fulfilled in our life. It was ranked the fourth highest/second highest need.

And many of us are struggling with it today!

Many people think it is ‘ego’, but that is incorrect.

Others think they can fulfil their need for self-esteem by buying a fancy handbag, shoes, clothes or other branded item to suggest that they have ‘made it’, that they are better than others.

Increasing population, urbanisation and overall competition sends many people along the path that they have to be better than others, that they have to be near the ‘top’ (what ever that means to them) to have self esteem.

Sooner or later they realise that is not enough.

Others serve people, be good, etc to try and feel better about themselves, to achieve positive self esteem.

But true self-esteem is where we/you feel good about yourself.

It is where you know are worthwhile.

Branded goods do not do that.

It can only be achieved by others recognising and reiterating that you are a worthy person.

And the people who care for you are the ones who are most important in this respect.

Accordingly, you need a partner who says such – says that you are a worthy, a great individual.

This is a major aspect of true love. One that makes you feel even more loved.

Does your lover do that?

Do you for your friends, family, loves, partner?

YOU SHOULD!

Find out more secrets about true love -download the book now (it’s free as we want to share the secrets to love that we have found).

The science of finding true love

Posted on September 22, 2017

Finding the ‘right’ partner is key to the quality, and even length, of your life. This one decision can determine 90 percent of your happiness – or misery. So it’s important to get it right.
So how do you find the right partner, your soul mate?
Here’s what you’ve been missing, the key we discovered that can help you find your soul mate.
It’s that your soul is related to the way energy flows within you and therefore finding your soul mate is a matter of finding someone with whom your energy best connects!
A soul mate adds to and amplifies your energy – and your energy theirs.
Unfortunately, you cannot easily ‘see’ how your energy could connect when assessing potential partners. It will vary from person to person and only you can sense and determine this.
As soon as you look beyond the physical you will see, be attracted to and meet, a lot more people who could be a good match for you.
There are many people who could be a great energy fit for you.
There are almost 7 billion people on the planet, which means that there are hundreds if not thousands of people with whom your energy could connect well.
This means you are not looking for “the one”, not looking for a needle in a haystack. There are likely to be several potential partners that you can relate with and grow love with!
This also means that you don’t have to compete for the same person as your friends.
To find someone with whom you can experience true love requires real contact and connection. Unfortunately, many of us are more comfortable writing short texts or emails to one another, rather than having a real conversation or contact with another person. But avoiding actual contact by hiding behind a computer isn’t the answer.
You need to get out and meet real people to see with whom your energy meshes best.
Download the free book to find out more….

Finding true love starts with you

Posted on August 17, 2017

Instead of trying to find someone who will love you, start by making yourself more loving.
Stop worrying what everyone else thinks of you. What do you think of yourself?
Unless you can find warmth, happiness and love in your relationship with yourself you’ll struggle to find these in your relationships with others. If you can’t be nice to yourself, or nice to those around you, how are you going to be nice to someone whom you’re attracted and would like to be nice back to you?
You’re the only one who can control your love energy. Before you enter a relationship you should have your own energy flowing well and balanced.
Start by caring about yourself, or as some people say “love yourself first”.
Don’t be hard on yourself, be soft and gentle towards yourself.
Learn to accept yourself, your own short comings.
Learn how to forgive yourself, again and again and again.
Learn to give to yourself, to let things go, to let your energy flow.
Being single doesn’t mean you have to be lonely or without love. It’s simply not true that you cannot have love without a partner. You can have love even if you are on your own.
Fall in love with the life you have. Enjoy your own company. If you can you won’t feel so lonely.
Most people search for love outside themselves.
For example, some people believe they will be happier “if” they do this or will be perfect if they get that; “if” they become like everyone else (whom they assume are actually happy themselves). This is why some of us believe that getting married will make us happy.
If you are unhappy and single, you could well be unhappy and married!
Marriage is not a solution to personal, psychological or emotional problems. Rather, marriage exacerbates them.
If you are an unhappy single person, you will be an unhappy spouse.
If you are not happy with yourself and your life before marriage, work on making your single self happy first. Then any marriage will have a much better chance of success.