While we all seek love and someone to love, it is important to remember that you cannot continually rely on someone else to make you happy.
For example, there’s an adage that says some people marry a partner who is like their mother or father, as they never grow beyond the parental relationship. Some people do seek a partner with the attributes of a parent as that is what they feel comfortable with and are used to; while others do so for other psychological reasons.
If you seek a partner who is like your parents you could be encouraging them to be your ‘parent’ rather than a true partner. Ultimately, you should be seeking a partner whom is who is like you.
You should not expect and demand someone to give you what you your self are not willing to give. That’s unfair, unbalanced and at some stage the natural laws of the universe will balance things out for you.