Have you noticed how you prefer to be around family, friends and other people who make you feel happy; rather than those who make you feel bad?
We’re all drawn to people who make us feel good. It’s simple survival. Being around happy people can make you feel happier; their happiness ‘rubs’ off onto you, as their positive energy can add to yours.
If you make your partner feel good it’s likely they’ll always want to be with you.
One of the best ways to make someone happy is to value them for themself. Do you love them for who they are? Do you, can you, encourage your partner to be themself?
Appreciate and love your partner as an individual and for them self; rather than as someone who ‘completes’ us, who fills the gaps within you, as someone who makes you feel better. This is a big a secret of successful relationships.
If someone doesn’t make you feel good about yourself it is only natural that you’ll drift apart.
The simple solution is to be proactive and try to make them feel special. There many ways to do this. It can be as simple as saying more positive compliments.
